As it turned out, there is ample support for the fact that the human mind can be programmed and manipulated. This is the basis of many industries like advertising, or branches of knowledge like positive psychology. The use of repetition and subtle cues can convince the mind of something that it might not believe in otherwise. And this is not a notion exclusive to psychology; neuroscience has also furnished us with some beautiful examples of how memories can be erased, changed, or inserted.
This knowledge is now mainstream that it would be hard to find an educated person who would question that the mind is very similar to a computer; it can be programmed and reprogrammed. What is not mainstream, however, is the idea that you are not in control of the program running your mind. And it is easy to understand why this is a hard-to-accept fact. We identify strongly with the content of our minds. We believe that we are who our egos tell us we are. We cherish our opinions and passionately defend them against any seeming threat. We might even be willing to die for them. To question the content of our minds seems equal to questioning the existence of who we believe we are.
But in search of truth, I’m not afraid to question my beliefs. I felt that some essential questions had to be asked. If my mind has been programmed, who has programmed it? How much control did I have over the content of my programs? And where is my true mind in all of this? These are questions pertaining to self-knowledge. And this quest has been a journey of self-knowledge and discovery. Going through it got me closer to unlocking the messages of the Matrix. And I am sharing what I have learned with you because I believe it can change our lives.
One of the concepts that took me a really long time to understand was the concept of the “heart”. All enlightened people advised us to follow our hearts, but no one told us what does this exactly mean. Some end up confusing the “heart” with their emotions, which we know from experience can fog our judgment. So, that cannot be it. It was only recently that I understood what the “heart” refers to. It is a different way of perceiving and processing information. Understanding the difference between how the heart works, versus the mind, is crucial to answering the questions I posed earlier.
The heart has a different way of seeing the world than that of the mind. From the heart’s point of view, all children are born with an innate knowledge of their essence. They are born knowing who they are, why they are born at that time and space, and in that particular environment. They know their purpose for coming to that life, the challenges they are going to face, and what they would like to get out of this existence. This knowledge is not similar to what an adult knows as knowledge; it is not language-based, it is not coming from learning and it definitely isn’t located in the head. That’s why the ancients called it the “heart” to distinguish it from the knowledge that is head-based. As adults, the closest thing to this knowledge that we know of is Intuition. However, this knowledge is much more than intuition; it is a direct knowledge of the spirit that inhabits the newly born’s body.
From the moment a child is born, everyone in the child’s environment becomes a teacher. What they teach is their worldview. They basically transmit the programs running in their heads to the newly born.
Little by little as the information accumulates inside the brain of the child, it starts to render the world according to this information. It is building the world bit by bit until the child sees it as everyone else sees it. Similar to computer programs that take a series of zeros and ones to render into graphics, the brain takes complex ideas and translates the energy of the world into a tangible reality. Although no two people see the world exactly the same way, and although there are so many variations in worldviews, the program that is transmitted from one person to another is so homogenous that we end up largely agreeing on its basic contents.
This program running in the world as a whole is what the movie dubbed the “Matrix”. The program running in your head, a.k.a. your mind, is a personalized version of it. Here comes the first and crucial difference between the heart’s and the mind’s points of view. In the mind’s worldview, the world is out there independent from us; the information we know about it comes from our observation of it. The heart sees it reversely; the world is projected outside of us based on the information we believe is true of it. This is exactly the same main message of the Matrix; the world is a set of downloaded programs projected in your mind.
And the mind does not give us only a worldview. Every child is also taught who she is based on her cultural, societal, educational, ideological, geographical, sexual, and racial background. This information overrides what the child is born knowing, thus the heart’s knowledge gets buried under layers of societal conditioning. By the time we learn to think for ourselves, around age 7, we become indoctrinated members of our society. The voice of our hearts, at this point, becomes faint and hard to hear and our lives are run by the programs we have been given. All subsequent learning, opinions, decisions, and thoughts are built on top of the foundation of these programs. That’s why it is said that the mind you are using is not yours; it belongs to your circumstances, to your conditioning. The true self, for the vast majority of people, remains hidden, inaccessible, and alienated.
I don’t think that this mind has been given to us by evil powers, as some of the stories would want us to believe. This is a disempowering and self-defeating proposition. What I truly believe in that the conditioning that we go through is something we chose as a challenge to guide our evolutionary path. Our challenge, if we accept it, is to realize that without unlearning our conditioning we will never know our true selves or our true purpose. Our highest potential lays in this knowledge, hence the advice of the ancient to follow the path of the heart. It is the most rewarding journey you can ever make because every item on it is personalized for you. It will bring your uniqueness and authenticity to the world in a way that no one else can match.
So, what are you waiting for? The world is waiting for you.